Friday, January 1, 2010

Vintage Inspired Wedding Help! BF & I Are Disagreeing About Wedding Ideas!?

Help! BF & I are disagreeing about wedding ideas!? - vintage inspired wedding

My bf and I are thinking about getting married when we're finished college (which is within the next two years). He wants a traditional wedding, very traditional, is located on the beach. I want a marriage of vintage inspiration, suspenders, vests, finger waves, and vintage cars. How to be the best of both worlds combine to loose my dreams?

7 comments:

cupcake said...

OK, so a wedding is not only the friends these days .... Men are tougher than ever. If it is going to be picky, it's probably a good thing, because you chose first.

This means that you and him, and pay any person for the wedding, should be considered when thinking about how you want to be scheduled. Boys tend to want something more traditional, just because they get through another day and everything it.

The best way to understand all of this is to set priorities ... Sit down with her and write down have different ideas. Their marriage is still the tradition and ring in the year, when you wave, which is important for both.

Note that for the first time in two parts. And both have other people's feelings and ideas, respect and so they work well

Take a sheet of paper for each of you .... and a bridal magazine .... each of you in silence through the magazine and the 3 ideas that they want, and if you see something inTernet ideas or what is practical to use them also ..... but only 3rd Then write the 3 most important things for you .... Maybe your dress or your aunt Ayda is .... sing a song or flowers? Parts Center? Feedback? Pull together the 3 things and see what interests. See what's similar. The little things that are in conflict with what the other half. Joint planning is a lot of give and take .... when a finger wave can dress plausible. However, respect for others, because at the wedding or a lifetime of difficult decisions.

cupcake said...

OK, so a wedding is not only the friends these days .... Men are tougher than ever. If it is going to be picky, it's probably a good thing, because you chose first.

This means that you and him, and pay any person for the wedding, should be considered when thinking about how you want to be scheduled. Boys tend to want something more traditional, just because they get through another day and everything it.

The best way to understand all of this is to set priorities ... Sit down with her and write down have different ideas. Their marriage is still the tradition and ring in the year, when you wave, which is important for both.

Note that for the first time in two parts. And both have other people's feelings and ideas, respect and so they work well

Take a sheet of paper for each of you .... and a bridal magazine .... each of you in silence through the magazine and the 3 ideas that they want, and if you see something inTernet ideas or what is practical to use them also ..... but only 3rd Then write the 3 most important things for you .... Maybe your dress or your aunt Ayda is .... sing a song or flowers? Parts Center? Feedback? Pull together the 3 things and see what interests. See what's similar. The little things that are in conflict with what the other half. Joint planning is a lot of give and take .... when a finger wave can dress plausible. However, respect for others, because at the wedding or a lifetime of difficult decisions.

Ella said...

I do not see how a wedding on the beach traditional and classical personally.

In any case, you have to speak for several years - you can also change their minds about him, so I do not stress.

I'm sure you can have a harvest theme wedding, still fits with their ideas. Men are not usually include with your wedding plans - generally are not interested if they can not come to read stupid and all his friends.

Oot n Aboot said...

Not for a while no longer use more ruffle feathers. You can still print photos that I thought you can have a visual. In addition, you may apply to the integration of both. Perhaps not cry wedding time, but people should realize that it was moving very 1930, and the car in a classical setting looks like. While it is still a traditional tuxedo and location.

One thing that (the work or may be able to), are defined, planning, budget and establishment of the traditional aspects that you want, then chances are that there is and says: Do "whatever you want." You can plan your route. Otherwise, press on the subject when it is time to do so.

Diane G said...

It seems that both are on the same path, but it remains to refine the details ...

You see, if you are in a period and development around the wedding, settle down ... Classic and Vintage are very close together!
Bring on the things that the two you prefer.

Some things to let go will get you in danger, but also other means ... Work on things that are two, and then work with them.
Out of the box, if necessary! Search the traditional way of doing things and put them in the wedding planning and etiquette.

If your heart is on the beach as a place that you go with this and the classical and traditional service. You can always dress vintage cars and ... only a formal wedding on the beach!

After the morning in the old or combinations of smoking are much better and modern! (Get just the right time of day, depending on the ... morning suits are today's events, Tux) for the night. It will also leave in the hope that the vest and gloves.
Ask your guests formally (if dressYou can! Mine ignored the official request of dress code)

I planned a wedding formal Victorian garden in an attempt to satisfy both our ideas and mine fight back. My dress and veil are capable of a cathedral, but looked fantastic in the garden. It looked fantastic on the beach.

Have fun planning your wedding! As you can surely think of something nice to express both of you good .... Vintage classic!

Sandy said...

These two concepts are combined ends of the spectrum. With a couple of years, plan to change both of the end of May my opinion. research for marriages that have made these questions and others are not. You may see something entirely different that both can be visual or compomise may be able to see what he wants and how well.

DigitalD... said...

No need for a disagreement on this point, if have not yet been introduced. Do not worry, until it becomes a problem when in fact they are planning a royal wedding. And if there is a problem, then find the two of you can compromise and a good balance between the two subjects.

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